用舌头代替拳头，用幽默化解沉默 (Use Your Tongue Instead of Fist and Break the Silence with Humor)

我们常说，君子动口不动手，很多人以为这只是一句玩笑话，但是事实上，这句话却是用舌头代替拳头的最好诠释。我们一生中要和将近三千万人相遇，他们的能力有高有低，如果我们不能进一步了解他们，就无法知道他们是否真有能力，但是我们却可以先了解他们口才上的能力。An old saying goes like "A gentleman uses his tongue but not his fists". Many people always take it as a teaser, but the truth is this saying is the best interpretation of "tongue instead of fists". During the entire life, we will meet nearly 30 million persons with stronger or weaker capabilities, we don't know whether they are talented unless further understanding is made, therefore, we choose to learn about their eloquence at first.